Is he queer or just a pig or both?

He has not touched me in almost a year, we only had once. When I first meant him he went out of his way to look at other chicks and reallly stare.. I should have ran then. but i had low self esteem and thought he was the only one i could get. he has me help him with all his stuff, he drinks so I drive him around, he has no license... He listens to the dixie chicks and other female singers and sings along with the music. he only kisses me on lips quickly once in a while, he does hold my hand when we go to the strore, but not that often. He tells me he loves me, he brags me up to his cousin and friends that are in another state. There is no affection at home, he does not even sit next to me on the couch, he says when i lose weight he will touch me, everytime he finds out i am on a diet he runs out and buys ice cream, (my weakness) he drinks beer everyday a six pack and on the weekends two sixpacks, he does not shower or brush his teeth, so i dont want him touching me now anyhow, once a week he gets all shaved and showered before he goes to work, and is concerned about his looks then, and he seems like he is in a good mood, and there are only men there at work. iam stuck on a lease with him for a few more months and plan to be gone when its up, i do care about him, but he acts so strange, i cant help think hes gay. i may have some weight on me, but iam working on losing that, i have been told i am not a bad looking woman, i am so mad at myself for being fooled, i guess i just don't know how to pick men and i am sure there will be some of you out there, that will rub my face in it, guess i deserve that. I have asked him if he is gay and he said no, he looks at girls that are in their early twenties and younger and he is 57 years old, so what do you think. I know, run for the hills, right?